The White House urged Congress this week to find ways to protect children from harmful content they see on social media and the internet using smartphones. The issue was addressed on Tuesday by U.S. Surgeon General Dr. Vivek Murthy in a strongly worded advisory to parents on the risk social media use poses to children.

Parents understand what kids often run across on a smartphone connected to the internet. Even
parents who want to hold off giving their children a smartphone often find it difficult because all
of their friends have one.

“I didn’t want them to be the only kids with their heads up,” said Brooke Shannon when her
elementary-age daughter asked for an iPhone. Rather than giving in to parental peer pressure,
Shannon reached out to the parents of her daughter’s friends.

“So I emailed about 20 or so moms just to see what they were thinking and what I kept hearing
is the reason parents were giving kids these phones was because they didn’t want their kids to
feel left out.”

Shannon launched “Wait Until 8th“, an initiative or plan to encourage parents to all say no, at
least until the 8th grade.

“That’s around 14,” she explained. “So it gets you through all of elementary school, most of
middle school at that point if you want to transition you can, and you’ll have a year before high
school.”
The organization has since grown to empower parents as a large group to say yes to waiting.

The Chief Parenting Officer of Bark, which has 8 years of research that shows what kids run across when they use phones and social media, says it’s a rather simple solution.

“If a certain amount of parents is together at one school or zip code. They can truly make a
difference, but the problem is a lot of parents are isolated. A lot of parents aren’t talking to other
parents. We’re operating in isolation as well, and that is not powerful.”

Jordan took another step, launching a Facebook group for parents called “Parenting in a Tech
World” which now has over 300,000 followers.

“If you’re struggling, go there. You may not know who to talk to in your neighborhood or in your
city. Go to that group. There are other parents that have been through what you’re going
through and are happy to help.”

Once a child gets a smartphone, it’s nearly impossible to take it back. Taking a stand at the
beginning may be the best way to protect children from all the things you wish they’d never see.

WaitUntil8th asks parents to take a pledge that they’ll hold off on giving their child a phone. If
you’re interested in organizing parents in your school, youth group, or just the circle of parents
of your children’s friends, you can find resources on the website.

www.waituntil8th.org
Parenting in a Tech World Facebook group
Bark’s Annual Report on Online Content and Children
www.whatthetech.tv